So I’m listening to the latest episode of the Savage Lovecast.
Dan is answering a question about whether honesty is always the best policy. He says something about how it is, usually, but timing can be just as important.
Like, if you do something bad with someone else, that you know you have to disclose to a partner, maybe it’s not the best idea to roll it out on them when that partner is already going through a hard time for some other reason.
Obviously, they’re talking about cheating.
But me, my first, second, and (sadly) third thought was “What are they talking about? Like if you make some else sandwich and you normally make sandwiches for just you and your partner? That kind of betrayal?”
Then I sat up and realized what a dumb thought that was.
What the fuck am I thinking about?